Kaz I like your attitude & I agree totally about your note to males! Lets get that inscribed in the sky&sea&land&on their foreheads!!! I find myself reserved & quiet around most males so as not to give them the wrong impression. Shouldn't have to be that way, it wasn't at high school, I went to a co-ed school.
My father said to me (he's my rock!) a man will never call a girl beautiful unless he knows that her heart belongs to him. I know it's a little ewy gooey fairytaly but hey at the end of the day, in such situations described by Soho Babi, I am able to laugh off silly boys wannabe men! It's not worth getting upset over or sorting them straight.
xo!!!