Posted: 07.05.2008 at 17.24
I have posted my opinion on this debate many times in many places, including my high school paper my senior year.
I am naturally 100 pounds, and constantly deal with the "you need to eat more" you are "too skinny" you look "anorexic and bulimic" and i find it outrageous that people are so apt to calling normally healthy skinny woman, those kinds of names.
But oh no, you wouldnt call an overweight person fat now would you? Not to their face, but you have the balls to call me twig to my face? Where does this make sense?
I am naturally skinny, and it is VERY VERY hard for me to gain weight. and i eat a lot of food. I lose weight very fast, and lose my appetite without food. It is very dangerous. I love to eat and i love food a lot. So do not judge someone based upon their appearance. That is misleading, and immature. As a society, we have taken the word "skinny" and demoralized its meaning to 'twig" "anorexic".. and it has become acceptable to call those who eat and eat, those names. Do not assume anything about being skinny, because it is nice yes, but at the same time, it is very hard. It isnt easy not gaining weight or muscle when everything you do burns 100 calories very fast.
this is something that me and my mother are very passionate about and will always stand our ground on this debate...
because unless you are in a skinny womans shoes,
you have no CLUE what it is like.
just like i have no idea what its like to be overweight.
People need to look past the outer appearance..
because i didnt ask to be skinny, and i didnt make myself this way.
so dont assume that i have.