Posted: 18.09.2006 at 19.14
Yes, it's always interesting to talk about a relatiosnhip since each is unique and never follow a pattern...
Well, for gals out there, in order not to be insecure, they have to keep a distance, not get involved too much, not give more than enough. Just give a bit: be stingy! especially if you are not even 51% sure it's "him." (This avoids transferrable diseases, too...)
Just keep looking for fun (because FUN is much much better than a lousy partner) and keep yourself full of fun. Then you'll see why you need not be insecure. There are a lot of fun out there. Rogue, I think is supplying much info of it!
As for me, I am through it all, and I can tell you, fun is good for yourself and your self-esteem.