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another vote here for insecurity killing relationships. Also trust is a massive part of it as well.... ohh and sumthing thats obvious that kills relationships, cheaters.

i think the thing that annoys me the most about guys are the stupid over the top possesiveness- a result of insecurity! My bf can be controlling and all that but i dont really mind it- he never stops me doing what i want to do. WIth girls, i know i get naggy at times (generally PMS) and stuff. Oh the other thing i cannot stand is a guy who says he will call, and doesnt. You dont have to call, but dont tell me you will!

Post by ruru

WIth girls, i know i get naggy at times (generally PMS) and stuff.

lol. 'Naggy at times'? Where are these girls who only get naggy at times?

ruru must means weekdays ending in 'y' ;)

((don't hit me))

A little jealousy is normal. There'd be something wrong if you didn't get it just a teeny tiny bit. But people tend to go overboard, then it's a bit out of control.

hahaha allan and dpd you guys know the wrong girls! Tho I must admit- my little sister is completely naggy and if i was her bf, I would have walked a long time ago! But seriously, ask my bf, I am only naggy when i have pms, like for a whole 1 or 2 days a month. Generally- he is the moody one :P

lol, what's your definition of naggy ruru? :D

My ex thought that if he put me down, then i wouldnt feel as good about myself, and i would think that he was the best i could do, and i would therefore stay with him forever.

he actually TOLD me this.

What kind of screwed up logic is that?

So yeah, guys who try to be dominant rather than equal can kill a relationship

that logic is just completly messed up.
in my head if i compliment my girl alot then she respects meand wants to stay with me..... then again i am single so obviously my theory doesnt work to well

naggy= those chicks who call 214702735402 times a day, demand attetion, cry/bitch/throw a tantrum when they dont get what they want, make puppy dog eyes, use emotional blackmail and generally do anything to get what they want.
I am not one of those.