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i think jealousy is the worst thing - making something out of nothing... like ruru and soho said, girls get so jealous if another girl thinks their guy is hot. personally, i love it when my boi flirts with another guy, or gets checked out by a hot guy. I like to know that my boi is hot, and other guys find him hot too - like - its not just me!

i think a good relationship takes openness, talking about whats going on for you and having the other person listen - actually listen, not just pretend to be! it takes having your own space, whilst enjoying time together, AND it takes loving everything that your partner is, and everything that they are not - without making them wrong or trying to change anything about them!

oh i dont get jealous when another girl thinks my guy is hot. i get pissed off when girls flirt with my guy knowing i'm with him...
speaking of which, if they have no idea then i make it known.
and he is the same, if some guy who has no idea i have a bf comes up to me in a club, he isnt gonna kill them, he just makes it known (or i do). its when they know that shits me. and there are a LOT of women out there who dont care if a guy is taken.

i asked my bf last night if he has cheated on me- he said no. I asked if he has thought about it- he said yes. i asked what stopped him and he said, in the early days he hardly thought about it, but wudev had the guts to do it, now he thinks about it but doesnt have the guts to do it. i kinda just laughed at him. openness and honesty is so important and i know plenty of girls that would have freaked hearing that but you gotta be realistic...

totally. i think about cheating on my boi all the time. I mean, there are hot people EVERYWHERE!!! But - I have a boyfriend and so i just look.. heck, i even made out with a guy in a night club last weekend, and my boi didn't really care at all - cause it didn't mean anything and loving someone is more than just the physical stuff - which is what flirting is all about. people only flirt with another to make themselves feel good, like wanted or something.

if you're secure in your relationship, and secure in yourself, then there's no reason to get upset when it turns out ur partner is human (heaven forbid!!) All there is, is what happens, and you deal with what happened, not with all the crap that people thing it 'means'

Cheating and lying or hiding a major truth is definitely something that will kill a relationship. I've been listening to a radio station here which caused a shock to some listeners because a girl who had been going out with a guy for 2 years was thinking of breaking the news to her boyfriend that she was pregnant, but then his workmate called her and said that he has been married all this while so was unsure what to do. Also clingyness/possessiveness can kill a relationship because you don't get your own space. And abusiveness is also bad...such as slapping someone or throwing them on concrete (like an ex once did to me when he was drunk)

this is one my sister and I were just talking about- guys that can't be wrong.
You know the type- the one where he does something wrong and you say something or get annoyed at it, and so he finds something you did in the past that he see's as worse, or makes something up (sisters ex used to say she never paid, when she used to shower him with gifts) and proceeds to get more angry than you and turn it around so its YOUR FAULT. I hate this. sometimes boys, you are wrong.

Never.

im never wrong... one itme i thought i was wrong, but i was mistaken


actually i can admit when im wrong. i do it often so i marse well realise it :p
yet to find a girl who can admit she was the reason her and i didnt work (even after they cheat they have tried to blame me... go figure). Last gf told me i didnt put enough effort in yet in the 3 months we were together, she visited my house twice and i went to her at least 3 times a week as well as planned outing and was always there when needed.

Yeah, lack of commitment can kill a relationship. I once had this b/f who would only see me 30 minutes each week...Too busy for me. He probably had a double-life, so I'm glad I dumped his ass after I had enough of his lame excuses for not wanting to spend time with me.

ok... i see my bf once a week.. or maybe twice a week.. we talk everyday and we are both really busy (i run a real estate agency and do a lot of community work- this weekend i'm holding a face painting and fairyfloss stall to raise money for the national breast cancer foundation at a community fete thingy, and he goes to uni full-time, works as a bouncer on weekends AND is bulding a block of units!) but i guess thats different because we try to talk everyday... and all of a sudden he keeps dropping the "M" word and im freaking out...

Today I took a day off to relax and thus filling in some holes of needed information.

Here it is.

Due to the complexities of human behavior the only one factor which stands out is being honest with oneself in order to be honest with everyone you meet and do not hold any real fear in following your heart when you are younger. There is no one thing which you can follow except what you know to be true to yourself - just have the courage to live your lives accordingly.


Mr. Roger M. Christian