hmmm... thank you lovelys... i will go back and try them on and continue pondering for a little while i think. not in a financial situation to just lash out and then later regret the purchase at the moment!
I am more petite and I although I love the high-waisted look, I think they look over powerin on me unless I am in an ultra high platform pump! I did buy a pair that reach right below my belly button and those are actually quite flattering!