He’s helped shape what it is to dress like a gentleman, albeit one with a lot more kink then what the word usually implies, and now Tom Ford has given us a his 5 rules on how to be a modern gentleman.

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Sitting down with Jefferson Hack, Editor-in-Chief of Another magazine, Ford has given his five-step how to as follows:

  1. You should put on the best version of yourself when you go out in the world because that is a show of respect to the other people around you.
  2. A gentleman today has to work. People who do not work are so boring and are usually bored. You have to be passionate, you have to be engaged and you have to be contributing to the world.
  3. Manners are very important and actually knowing when things are appropriate. I always open doors for women, I carry their coat, I make sure that they’re walking on the inside of the street. Stand up when people arrive at and leave the dinner table.
  4. Don’t be pretentious or racist or sexist or judge people by their background.
  5. A man should never wear shorts in the city. Flip-flops and shorts in the city are never appropriate. Shorts should only be worn on the tennis court or on the beach.

It’s only the latter that seems out of place amongst a list of otherwise still-relevant manners and qualities.

Jefforson Hack’s full interview with Tom Ford appears in the spring / summer 2011 issue of Another magazine along with the previewed photo shoot by Jeff Burton.

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Tania
Tania wrote on 22nd March 2011 at 22.47:
Amen.
Tornike
Tornike wrote on 23rd March 2011 at 04.03:
I find the latter very appropriate too.
Aaron D.
Aaron D. wrote on 23rd March 2011 at 21.04:
This is only pretentious shit. Come on, one thing is to be a gentleman and other is to feel you're Sherlock Holmes wearing suits everyday. Twenty first century, people. Be polite, yes; know everything you can about culture, yes; wear flip-flops, shorts, pants, t-shirts, and whatever you want to wear, yes.
Lexie
Lexie wrote on 27th March 2011 at 08.39:
I'm loving this!
sue
sue wrote on 29th March 2011 at 07.19:
this guy is hot!!
Debbie WH
Debbie WH wrote on 29th March 2011 at 10.32:
Let's see, who would I rather hang out with? Tom Ford and his respect for self, his companions and society as a whole or a man who shows little respect for me, the reader or society which is his audience or himself? Consensus--> Tom Ford. We dress, talk and behave as we choose at home where we let our hair down and our inner child out for recess in flip flops and shorts ; )
Cathy
Cathy wrote on 29th March 2011 at 13.12:
Well done that man for saying what women have been saying for years!!
Julie
Julie wrote on 29th March 2011 at 15.09:
Too fabulous and so very true
Debbie WH
Debbie WH wrote on 29th March 2011 at 18.06:
Let's see, who would I rather hang out with? Tom Ford and his respect for self, his companions and society as a whole or a man who shows little respect for me, the reader or society which is his audience or himself? Consensus--> Tom Ford. We dress, talk and behave as we choose at home where we let our hair down and our inner child out for recess- in flip flops and shorts ; )
herbert preston
herbert preston wrote on 30th March 2011 at 07.41:
i appreciate tom's
view of fashion.
Nicole Lisa
Nicole Lisa wrote on 31st March 2011 at 11.52:
Copy, paste and sending to all the guys i know.
Andrew Njenga
Andrew Njenga wrote on 8th April 2011 at 00.19:
true true Tom. im from Kenya n there are no gentlemen in Nairobi at all. its bloody annoying
David
David wrote on 20th April 2011 at 03.15:
"This is only pretentious shit. Come on, one thing is to be a gentleman and other is to feel you're Sherlock Holmes wearing suits everyday"

I think someone has missed the point. Tom never said wear a suit every time you leave the house, he said "put on the best version of yourself" I know people who simply couldn't wear a suit, ever, but they can wear clean jeans. Whatever the best version of you is that's what you show the world, but I suspect most of us do whether we mean to or not.
sweetginger
sweetginger wrote on 25th June 2011 at 08.59:
That is the truly true, I love the five steps of Tom Ford every man should follow them
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